This BLOG is the second is a series to share some tools to get you started on creating your Life Design. The processes and tools that I have learnt and used over the last ten years, not only for myself but also with my clients will enable you to discover the crucial parts of you that are vital to incorporate into YOUR Life Design. Join me as I share some of these Coaching processes and Tools with you today and in my BLOGS over the next few months.
Get Your NEEDS Met
We know that we need air, water, shelter, and food to have our physical needs met. But we also need to have our Personal ‘Needs’ met. So much of WHO we are is influenced by HOW we get these personal needs met. Often, needs direct major life decisions until they are met. Needs can also sit on top of, or get in the way of, a person clearly identifying their values and living life based on those values. A NEED is a must for you to be your best!! For example, you may need to be accepted, to accomplish, to be acknowledged, to be loved, or cared for.
When our needs are not met we slip into unhealthy and unproductive ways of behaving or interacting with others. We also attract needy people into our world. .
NEEDS
- Drive us
- They are unique and normal to the individual.
- If not they are addictions or compulsions.
- Needs are temporary.
- Needs change.
- Needs are a lifetime activity.
- With met needs we can be ourselves.
- Free up time.
- Move on.
- Plug the holes.
- Skill mastered.
- Orientate life around values.
Identify your 4 Top Personal Needs – how do you get these met?
Remember – Working your way through these processes takes courage! Be kind to yourself and feel free to contact Patti, if you would like a Coach to partner you on this journey. (Patti offers a 30minute FREE phone coaching session to get you started).
About Patti Gwynne
